We didn’t fall into love — we built it.
Not out of tradition. Not out of fear. But out of years of listening, learning, and asking harder questions than most couples are willing to ask.
We’ve both been married before. We know what it feels like to be “all in,” only to discover the model itself wasn’t built to last — not for people who grow, question, evolve. Not for people like us.
When we found each other, we didn’t just want connection — we wanted consciousness. We weren’t looking for a default. We were looking for a design.
So we became architects.
Over five years, we pieced together something new — not from scratch, but from everything we’d learned:
From friends we admired and couples we wanted to learn from
From therapists and coaches — ours and others’
From books, podcasts, voice memos, and dinner table debates
From the mistakes we made and the clarity they gave us
And we wrote it down. All of it.
What emerged wasn’t just a relationship. It was an agreement. A living, breathing reflection of our values, our needs, and our shared commitment to growth.
It includes deep conversations and lighthearted check-ins. A prenuptial agreement and a will. Boundaries, deal breakers, dreams, and rituals. It’s honest. It’s alive. And every two years, we choose it again — or change it, together.
The New Love Agreement isn’t about fixing what’s broken. It’s about asking what could be better — and building it anyway.
This is for couples who:
And yes — we’ve had so much fun making it. Because nothing feels more liberating than creating love on your own terms.
Now we’re sharing it — not because it’s perfect, but because it’s real.
If you’re ready to design a relationship that reflects who you really are, you belong here.
Educated, values-driven, relationship-curious adults who want something more conscious, flexible, and real than the old model.
Join us for a live gathering where we explore a bold new framework for relationships: renewable love agreements built on freedom, growth, and conscious choice.
This Is Not: A sales pitch. A therapy session. A one-size-fits-all solution.
This Is: A living-room-style conversation with people who are ready to challenge norms and co-create something extraordinary in love and relationship design.
Breanna and Paul met each other in 2018 just after both of them ended long term marriages (Paul 22 years and four kids, Breanna 18 years and two kids). The first two years they were together they repeatedly said "we are never doing that crazy marriage thing again." And then they stumbled onto the idea of a 2 year renewable marriage agreement. They spent another three years brainstorming on how they could make this work and below you will read two articles that explain the details of what they created and why they choose this vs. a traditional marriage.
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